“All right, think of it like this, Um...Jump ahead 10 20 years.Okay?And you're married. Only your marriage doesn't have that same energy that it used to have. You start to blame your husband.Your start to think about all those guys you've met in your life and what might have happened if you picked up with one of them, right?Well,I'm one of those guys.That's me.So think of this as time travel from then to now, to find out what you're missing out on. See, what this really could be is a gigantic favor to both you and your future husband to find out that you're not missing out on anything. I'm just as big a loser as he is , totally unmotivated, totally boring, and, uh, you made the right choice and you're really happy."